the concept of disability is violent because “DIS” implies a diminishing lack
ex: not being able to work part-time or full-time or regularly is not considered simply as a difference in a society of equals, but as a lack, something that makes people have less inherent value, makes them less worthy of respect and consideration
ex: some people who do not live with disability like to praise people living with disability who win olympics or do something out of the ordinary. this is another type of attitude, but it is still some kind of ableism that praises those with similar ableist standards as the main stream.

we could live in a world without disabilty/disability is a social construct.
ex: Indigenous friend of mine with disability related to written language. not disabled in an oral culture like hers
ex: me at my current workplace: my overstimulation management, need for longer breaks, my meditations and low voice chantings are accepted in the small workplace we have. sometimes i feel they are even considered as teachings.
ex: people with skills in pain management could be teachers too
ex: world where everybody is by default equal, where basis is not competition and performance, but sharing and exchanging and meeting